
do not let anyone tell you that this is an ending;
it is a meta-morphosis.
Doula support by the decade
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your 30s
Menopause is not likely on your radar, but perimenopausal symptoms can begin 10-15 years before your final period (in your late 30s). This is the perfect time to learn about your hormones, what to expect as they begin to change and what in your environment might disrupt them; why and how to chart your cycles; and which health investments you should make in your health now for a smoother transition later (for example, being strategic about laser hair removal).
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your 40s
Perimenopause is likely in full swing, and life is probably brimming with activity. You may feel like you have no time for yourself. Learn about your hormones and the symptoms of withdrawal, ask your burning questions about HRT, check in on your pelvic floor, find practical solutions to disruptive symptoms, and most importantly, address the stress that can negatively amplify your transition.
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your 50s
The average age of menopause is 51. This stage is not simply the end of your cycles, every part of you can be impacted. Make it your villain era. Practice radical self-care; know the significant health risks associated with estrogen withdrawal —heart disease, osteoporosis, dementia, body composition changes— and what to do to manage them; check in on your pelvic floor; update your sex ed. for the changes in store; reflect on your role in society and what you want moving forward.
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your 60s and beyond
Your final cycle is well behind you, but you still want to manage your post-meopausal health strategically. Bones, muscles, brain, bladder, heart, and, sex, nutrition, exercise are all important. You deserve the best information that represents your body. Women often stop seeing a gynaecologist just at the time when the most issues crop up. You should not accept reductions in quality of life —like incontinence, vulvar pain, UTIs, or even decreasing bone mass— as simply the result of aging.
LIFESTYLE SUPPORT
Future planning
Quality of life
Healthy aging
Healthy beauty
Healthy eating
Healthy movement
Healthy sleep
Healthy sex
Healthy home
Wellness
Community and social engagement
Resources — recommended reading, clinics, health professionals, therapists, products, etc.
HEALTH SUPPORT
Women’s hormones and pelvic education
Women’s heart health education
Women’s bone health education
Women’s cognitive health education
Support for surgery such as hysterectomy
Identification of peri/menopausal symptoms and patterns
Cycle charting and fertility
Wellness and self-care strategies
Symptom troubleshooting
Advocacy coaching for healthcare settings
Medical appointment preparation
Long-term preventative self-care plans
Resources — NAMS healthcare providers, complementary health providers, recommended reading, checklists, products, etc.
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT
Mind Shift problems, blockages, beliefs
Empathetic listening and peer counselling
Stress management and coping
Intimacy changes
Shifting family dynamics
Social roles and aging
Self-care
Empowerment and celebration
Education for partners
Resources — mental health professionals and therapists, recommended reading, products, etc.